Chapter 540 Don’t have too thick a filter for family affection
Chapter 540 Don’t have too thick a filter for family affection
If your sister-in-law is kind and decent, he would not be able to accept such a cruel wife. On the contrary, they have been able to live in harmony for so many years without any trouble, which can only show that they are the same kind of people.
Maybe your brother-in-law is the real murderer behind this incident.
He doesn't need to do anything else. He just needs to say a few more ambiguous words to your eldest sister, and your eldest sister will take action for the sake of her child's future.
If you don't believe it, you can observe the couples around you. Many families are a combination of women who are difficult to deal with and men who are good people.
We cannot rule out the existence of such nice guys, but eighty to ninety percent of them are not like that. These so-called "nice guys" are just pretending and performing for everyone to see.
Otherwise, how can a man not be able to watch over and control a woman? No one would believe it. From a physical point of view, women have no advantage at all.
I have observed carefully, and found that behind every woman who seems extremely shrewish and noisy and difficult to deal with, there is a "smart" man with deep scheming, who pretends to be a good person and seeks profit.
It's not that they are incapable of controlling their own women, but they know that daily life requires someone who is willing to take risks and fight for all kinds of benefits and advantages for their own small family.
And the wife is the best candidate. She doesn't need to spend money or charge. She just needs a few words of guidance and she can go on the expedition at zero cost and with full power.
For the sake of their children, some women are willing to charge into the front lines and fight all over the world, and are proud of it. They feel that their maternal love is so moving that they would believe that their children would go down in history.
You see, before the incident, they all pretended to be dead, waiting for unexpected wealth and good luck to fall from the sky.
After your eldest sister was caught, they jumped out one by one in a pretentious manner and cried to you about their ignorance and the difficulties they had.
They deceived you into sympathy and blackmailed you into letting their mother (wife) go. How could such a good thing happen in the world? Anyone who believed what they said was a fool.
If your child is really lost, will your sister give her own child to you to raise on the grounds that you are too lonely, under the pretext of letting the children spend more time with you?
Then they will take over your nest and take everything you have for themselves, even destroying your family.
Let's be a little more disgusting and imagine her to be in a more terrible state. Even if you become pregnant again, she will let her child or herself take action to cause you to have an accident and lose the child again.
What if you can't have your own child in this life? Will you treat her child as your own? Will you invest all your resources and property in her child?
From then on, he became her tool for profit.
If you don't want to do this, your parents and your brothers and sisters will come out and say that you don't have your own children, and you don't treat your nephews and nieces as your own children. Who will take care of you when you are old?
They care whether you are fake or not, their real purpose is to make money.
All cases have their motives. I don't believe your elder sister has no motives. She did this purely because she likes you. What is her motive? So, I think my guess is very likely to be true.
Besides, what guarantee do you have that your elder sister won't do this? It's hard to guard against the poisonous snakes lurking around you, and don't think I'm exaggerating.
I have really heard of a sister who deliberately sold her older sister's daughter and sent her own daughter to the other sister to be raised, in order to take over the other sister's nest.
The reason is very simple, it is because her sister's family is better off and she can't bear to see that the other party lives better than herself, so she wants to play tricks on her sister and make her sister suffer.
I've also heard of someone switching their own child with their sister's when their sister gave birth, and then abusing their sister's child, fooling their sisters for many years.
As for the reason, it’s the same as above, they just can’t stand the other person living better than themselves.
So, don’t have too thick a filter for relatives and family affection. Break free from the constraints of blood ties and look at the problem again, you will find that everything is just like that.
When you meet family members who love you, cherish them and repay them with the same heart.
If you meet someone who doesn't love you, you should keep your distance from them, stay away from them, and cut off contact with them.
If you are not ruthless, your position will not be stable. Just treat others the way they treat you. No one should feel that they are at a disadvantage. The main goal is fairness. "
Speaking of this, Xia Ran has seen many girls in real life crying and saying that their parents don't love them.
The more she complains online, the more frequently she visits her parents in real life.
It is said that the road to my mother's home was paved with money, and I can't afford to go there because it is too expensive.
Also, her parents on her mother's side didn't love her, her younger brother and sister-in-law and her older brother and sister-in-law weren't nice to her, and so on.
But the next time she goes back to her parents' home, she will still run around and do her best when something happens at her parents' home. It doesn't matter whether it's fucked or not.
You do have a bit of a temper. Since you feel that your parents' home is not treating you well, why don't you be more courageous and go less often or not go at all, okay?
Is it okay to spend all the money from your mother's family on yourself or your own children?
Does it mean that I have too much money and I have to spend it on my mother's family to feel comfortable?
I am so impressed by this guy.
Complaining is useless. If you find a problem, shouldn't you think about solving it? Why just complain? Complaining won't solve the problem.
Was it posted online specifically to anger the readers? The readers were filled with righteous indignation and wanted to help the protagonist.
As a result, the protagonist just complains online, and then talks about what to do after venting his anger.
They did take out the garbage, and felt better, but it gave the readers a heart attack and made them look emo.
Could it be that the reader’s mood is not a mood?
Xia Ran never comments on such things. If she were to comment, it could only be summed up in four words: "You deserve it."
Others cannot hurt us. Those who can hurt us are those whom we allow ourselves.
It is we who have applied more than a dozen levels of filters to various relationships, beautifying the other party, beautifying the relationship, and giving the other party an opportunity to take advantage of us.
Maybe the knife that the other party stabs at us was handed to the other party by us ourselves.
There are also many sisters-in-law who, when they have unhappy relationships with their natal family, blame all the faults on their younger brother's wife or their natal sister-in-law.
It's even more ridiculous.
On the surface, it seems that the brother's wife or sister-in-law is not a good person, but in essence, it is because the brothers and sisters are not good people.
Many of the actions of my brother's wife and sister-in-law are condoned by my brothers and sisters.
Once people grow up and get married, you, the elder sister-in-law or younger sister-in-law, will become an insignificant outsider to this small family.
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