After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Chapter 541 Don’t Subsidize Them Privately

They will definitely put the interests of their own small family first, and when something happens, they will definitely stand together to face the outside world.

It's just that this offensive job was done by these women - "brother's wives and sisters-in-law".

Just to make each other look better, their brothers and sisters hid behind the scenes, gave many suggestions and gained many benefits.

All these conflicts and disturbances revolve around "money" and "resources", and they are the ones with the same interests.

Many women deceive themselves and insist that their brothers and younger brothers are innocent and good people, but they are just unlucky to marry the wrong women, etc.

What else can I say? The brothers and sisters had no choice but to treat their own sisters like this.

As I said, there are two kinds of people sleeping in the same bed.

Don't deceive yourself. To put it bluntly, it's not that your brother's wife or sister-in-law is not good enough, it's that your own brother or younger brother is not good enough.

Otherwise, your sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law would not dare to treat you like this.

After Xia Ran finished speaking, she couldn't help but think about all sorts of things.

At this moment, Qi Ningjun's face was pale, and he felt that the blood in his body was so cold that it solidified and even stopped flowing.

She never told anyone that she could only have Chenchen as her child in this life.

She had a heavy hemorrhage when she gave birth to Chenchen and almost died on the spot. She was later rescued, but she could never have another child.

Of course, with the family planning policy in place, she had no plans to have another child. Having Chenchen was enough for her.

But what if Chenchen was really lost this time? She really didn’t dare to think about it any further.

The more I thought about it, the scarier it became. The more I thought about it, the more my hands started shaking. I was simply frightened out of anger.

This family is so cruel and vicious.

It was only after a long while that Qi Ningjun regained his consciousness and voice.

Pretending to be nonchalant, he said, "I have heard of and seen many cases of child swapping, but most of them took advantage of others not noticing to swap their own daughters for other sons. I have never heard of this happening between sisters."

Xia Ran: "It means you haven't heard too many strange things. Have you seen too little human nature in the hospital? The hospital is the place where you can best witness human nature.

Some people are kind and pure, shining brightly; some people are completely unscrupulous, scheming and scheming, and then behave in an ugly way.

Ordinary strangers do not know each other and have no interests involved. When they see that you are living a good life, they will not be jealous of you but will only feel envious.

But it’s different with acquaintances, especially those relatives and friends who are not very smart, you have to be more careful.

Just because everyone knows each other, they will be compared together from time to time.

When people say something to you too often, you will unconsciously take it to heart and start to use you as a reference, comparing yourself to them constantly.

The more you compare yourself to others, the more unbalanced your mentality becomes. It's obvious that we both look almost the same pretty, and other conditions are almost the same, so why is your life better than mine in every aspect?

No, I have to find a chance to pull you down. I can't let you live better than me, I can't let you laugh louder than me, and I can't let you be happier than me.

These people may be parents, siblings, best friends, partners at work, close friends in life, and so on. There are so many such people. "

This is why Xia Ran did not do so even though he had the ability to bring Gui Niang out to make a lot of money.

She didn't want to lose this affection, nor did she want it to deteriorate.

The only way is to guide Gui Niang to earn the money herself in an appropriate and subtle way.

We also have to find a way to let Gui Niang stand on her own feet and have the ability to stand in the world, instead of relying on Xia Ran as a plug-in.

Everything you get from others is always unreliable.

And the benefits that Xia Ran threw out were just right.

Not too much, not too little, and it will not make Gui Niang feel greedy or angry. Gui Niang also has the ability to control these things and complete her mental growth.

Otherwise, if a poor person suddenly becomes rich, it will be hard to predict whether it will be a blessing or a disaster.

Later, she took Gui Niang to play with the "subscription certificate" to make some quick money.

Use this money to buy a few houses in Shanghai and stock them up. As long as she doesn't do anything stupid, Gui Niang's future will be guaranteed.

As for how much Gui Niang can grow, that is her own business, and Xia Ran will no longer worry about it.

It's enough for her to be worthy of this affection.

Qi Ningjun was silent for a long time before he said, "You are right, I was too obsessed with the appearance and I didn't think it through.

I found that you are not much older than me, but you think about things very maturely. I feel like you are a life mentor to me.”

"What kind of life mentor is this? It's nothing more than someone who has suffered too much and seen too many bad people and bad things, so he has learned to be more mindful and knows how to deal with these things."

"Hug you, you are so open-minded. I thought you were doing well, but I didn't expect you would go through so much."

Xia Ran hugged him back, "I am indeed living a good life. I am extremely satisfied with my current life. As for the past, it is all in the past and not important. I only focus on the present and the future."

"Yes, we only look at the present and the future, nothing else matters."

Seeing that the other party was getting along well with him, Xia Ran couldn't help but say more, "Don't take care of and subsidize your nephews and nieces in private, and don't feel sorry for them and then give them both money and labor.

In their eyes, your behavior is not what you think it is. They will only think that you are a bad person and that you are being hypocritical and phony.

They won't be grateful to you, they will only hate you more.

They won't think that their mother did anything wrong. They will only remember that it was you who personally sent your own sister - their mother - in jail.

All the good things you do for them, in their eyes, are atonement for your sins and a debt you owe them.

They are young now and have no chance to retaliate, but once they find the opportunity, they will definitely avenge their mother. You will eventually make several enemies.

Really, please believe me, the probability of this happening is very, very high.

These children, who have received so much care from you, still have the nerve to come to you for mercy even though they know what their mother has done. This shows that your nieces and nephews are not children with positive values.

On the contrary, it shows that these children are fundamentally rotten and beyond help.

Otherwise, many children who know good from bad would try to hide from you after something like this happens. They would not come to you on their knees and force you to release the person by flattering you and relying on your love and pity for them.

If I were one of those children, I had received so much care from others, and my own mother had done something to hurt others, I would not be ashamed to kneel down and force others to forgive me, or beg them to let me go.

You have to know that normal people can't open their mouths like this.