kingnovel Chapter 594: Great kindness is like great hatred
Chapter 594: Great kindness is like great hatred
There are countless examples like this, and her analysis makes a lot of sense.
If you put yourself in his shoes, you will probably do the same. Who wants to endure the hardship when there is a shortcut?
"Don't think I'm lying or trying to scare you, this is definitely what many men really think and what they intend to do.
Many times, men are more willing to compromise than women. For example, he can use marriage as a bargaining chip for money and power and marry a woman he doesn't love.
In order to achieve certain goals, one can even pretend to love the other person very much, and even act with the other person for many years until he gains power.
Sometimes they are particularly unwilling to compromise. For example, when they become successful, they will immediately change their wives and cannot wait even a quarter of an hour. "
Women are different. Most women may not want to let a man touch them if they don’t like him.
Of course, this does not apply to those habitual cheaters or women who make a living from this.
Men are not like that. For some men, as long as the other party is a woman, he can accept it.
No matter whether your heart accepts it or not, your body is very honest and never lies.
Wang Jiaojiao looked straight at Xia Ran.
"Why, do you think I'm talking nonsense?
Let me tell you, it's because he can't accept that a woman who has seen him at his most miserable continues to hang around in front of him, reminding him of his terrible past.
The reason is that he doesn't love you anymore, he loves someone else. In fact, this kind of man loves no one but himself.
He thinks your family members are superior to him. He thinks your family members look down on him and are laughing at him.
You may even feel that because he married you, he has suffered a lot of contempt and grievances, and that every day he has been with you, he has been like Goujian, the King of Yue, who slept on firewood, tasted gall and endured humiliation.
This type of people are often both inferior and conceited, and have a lot of inner thoughts.
A casual word from you in daily life can hurt his fragile self-esteem.
He will even keep a note of you in his heart, and swear from time to time that when he has power, he will do this and that to you...
He knows better than anyone how he got what he has now. But the more a person lacks something, the more he wants to prove it.
By stepping on your family, he is trying to prove that he would have achieved what he has today even without your family. He will never admit that he has achieved what he has today because of you.
Otherwise, you have done him a great favor. How can he justifiably get rid of you, a "useless person"? How can he be right?
This is what it means when great kindness leads to great hatred.
The reason why he wants to change people is that on the one hand he is greedy for the excitement of other people's young bodies, and on the other hand he can't face you normally.
When he faces you, he will think of his embarrassing, humble, and silent past that he doesn't want to be mentioned.
When facing you, your pure and sincere heart makes him look like a maggot in a gutter, appearing filthy and dirty.
Can't get on the table.
The best way at this time is to find an excuse to get rid of you with justification and start his own brilliant life.
Erase all traces of you and your family, and clear yourself of all charges by portraying yourself as a young talent who is not afraid of difficulties and has made his own way from scratch.
Do you understand? This is the normal logic and thinking of men. This is how they think and how they act.
Remember, girl, never marry down, never marry down, especially if your family is well off.
The better your family conditions are, the higher the other person may climb in the future. The higher they climb, the faster you and your family will die.
This is true human nature.
Don't hurt your loving parents and siblings just because of your momentary willfulness. It's not worth it."
This is the fundamental reason why many men change their wives as soon as they become rich.
It’s not that this wife is not good enough, nor that this wife is not understanding enough.
Rather, your role has been completed and you can retire successfully. You should not continue to exist or bring shame to others.
So as to avoid reminding him all the time how terrible and miserable he had been.
What's more, he has entered the next stage and already has power. He shouldn't be bound by you any longer.
He doesn't want to continue living in your shadow. He wants to start enjoying a happy life with girls hugging him.
No matter how deeply this kind of man bends in the beginning, how high he can bounce back once he gains the upper hand.
If you don’t believe it, just look at those prominent bosses in later generations. How many of them stayed together with their first wives until the end?
He brags to others about how awesome and capable he is.
He never mentioned how much help and assistance his wife and her family gave him, and how many shortcuts he took.
People who don’t know the truth think he is really awesome.
It was just in the name of love that he coaxed a naive girl and made her do her best to help him climb to the top, which led to his current situation.
Even a fool knows that the first pot of gold is the hardest to earn.
Without the help of others, he might still be struggling to make a living at the bottom of society.
If any man were to come here, with such power and financial resources, he would be able to take off unless he was a fool.
What's more, most of these people have caught up with the trend of the times and reaped the dividends bestowed by the times.
This is the action and reaction of a normal person.
The man who remains loyal to his wife after becoming successful is truly inhuman.
Therefore, such men and qualities are the most valuable.
The box was quiet with only Xia Ran's voice.
As soon as Xia Ran finished speaking, she lay down and went to sleep. By the way, she took out her old hammer and placed it next to her inner hand.
As for what other people think or what they think, it is none of her business.
Chen Jianhui breathed a sigh of relief when he saw Xia Ran finally stopped talking. He asked Qi Kun to help him watch something and then he went to pee.
Today's incident was so embarrassing, it was simply a large-scale social death scene.
While peeing in the toilet, I was still wondering why he was so rude and why he had to use his own example to persuade others.
Tell me, what happened today?
He just said it casually, but a woman he didn't know took it seriously and told it to others as teaching material and case study.
The key point is that he was criticized for nothing, but the problem is that he really didn't cheat.
How wronged he is.
The way this woman talked about him made it seem like he was nothing.
He just doesn't love his wife, and it's not an unforgivable crime. Why does he become nothing in her mouth?
If you want to refute the other party, but he doesn’t know how to respond, it’s very frustrating.
All I can say is that only villains and women are difficult to raise.
After washing his face with cold water, he returned to the box and thanked Qi Kun, who was looking at him with sympathy and curiosity.
He put the goods in his bag and himself on the upper bunk.