After Black Lotus became a reborn person, he went completely crazy

Chapter 901 Money and Career

Having a green card or not doesn't really matter to me; I don't need that thing.

Besides, with my wealth, I can apply for a green card at any time.

Xia Ran had also thought about this issue, and finally decided to register her child's household registration in Gangcheng.

It ensures that the person is Chinese while also maintaining a certain degree of independence, which is helpful for inheriting the family fortune later on.

He casually asked Chen Jin, "What about you? How do you plan to have children?"

Chen Jin replied, "I originally planned to have a natural birth, I really hadn't thought about a C-section."

"Both have their advantages and disadvantages, and I plan to have a cesarean section directly."

Natural childbirth is extremely painful, and the resulting tearing can easily lead to long-term complications such as urinary incontinence.

"Yeah, that's true. I'll consult a doctor after I'm done."

Xia Ran teased at the end of the phone call, "Now you know how good your little brother is, right? Don't you feel very happy?"

Chen Jin said embarrassedly, "I've noticed that you're getting more and more vulgar with your words."

"Just tell me if he smells good or not!"

"It's alright."

"What do you mean by 'okay'? It has to be good. You've already found a younger brother. If you say it's okay, then it means you've failed."

Chen Jin quickly replied, embarrassed, "It's pretty good. Apart from being a little childish and immature at times, it doesn't have any other shortcomings for now."

"It's fine if he's naive, as long as he's not stupid, bad, or emotionally unstable. Don't expect too much."

It's impossible for him to possess both the wisdom of a mature man and the physique of a young man.

If you gain one thing, you can't enjoy another; it's normal to have gains and losses.

Also, always remember to safeguard your money and career; with these two things, you'll never lack a lover.

But if you can't even hold onto these two things, then you won't be able to keep anything else, including people.

Also, don't be too good to men, and don't feed them too well in terms of money and power, or it will backfire.

Since ancient times, imperial sons-in-law have never held power; this is the reason why. Women who are overly protective of their men are likely to suffer greatly.

In her later years, Xia Ran saw too many examples of women who were successful in the business world and had high IQ and EQ, but who ultimately failed in marriage.

She had to be careful, lest it affect their relationship or harm the company's interests in the future.

People who are blinded by love have negative IQs, so consider this a preventative measure.

Chen Jin remained silent for a while before saying, "Yes, I've remembered everything you said. So, how are things going with your partner?"

“Great, I’m very satisfied. So far, he seems to be a very qualified partner and father.”

Although he is young, he is mature and steady, has a sense of boundaries, and feels quite happy with his current life. He should cherish it.

Our partner is still young, so let's guide them more. After all, good partners are nurtured through the little things in daily life.

Live life to the fullest and focus on the present. What the future holds is not something we should worry about.

I hope to grow old with my partner, but I don't necessarily have to. I'll accept whatever stage we take.

I can accept and face any outcome. Frankly, I accept everything that happens and is possible, good or bad.

"Hmm, you're very open-minded and insightful. That makes sense. With this mindset, you can be happy with anyone. I'm not worried about you."

"Indeed, if things aren't going well, I'll just kick them to the curb. My principle is to cherish the time we're together and try not to mess things up."

If you feel it's not right and you can't go on, then quickly find someone else. Just make sure you don't waste your time and have no regrets.

I only focus on the present and don't care about tomorrow. Tomorrow is God's business and not something we should worry about.

I've said before that I can accept lovers no longer loving each other, as long as there's no betrayal or deception involved.

Many of us don't even know how to love ourselves, so how can we possibly love others forever?

That's unrealistic and goes against human nature.

Think about it again, there are parents who don't love their children and children who don't love their parents, and at least there is a blood relationship between them.

How could we dare to expect a stranger who has no blood relation to us to love us for a lifetime?

Besides, we ourselves can't even meet these requirements, so how dare we ask others to?

This is neither fair nor reasonable; insisting on it is simply insane.

Chen Jin sighed, "Ah, this is easier said than done. Over time, you develop feelings for it, and it's hard to give it up."

"If you find it difficult, it's because you haven't truly loved or accepted yourself."

When you truly love yourself, your instincts will help you make the right choices.

That means no one can hurt us. My principle is that whoever hurts me, I will abandon them, regardless of the nature of the relationship.

"It seems like I can't do that yet, but I'm working on it. Most people find it hard to be as carefree as you."

You have no idea how happy my parents were when I got pregnant; they felt like I finally had someone to rely on.

"This is what most elderly people think: they want your family not to tell anyone about your pregnancy."

Not everyone wants you to be happy.

It seems Shao Pengfei has trained a group of female bodyguards. Get one or two of them, if they're not particularly attractive, to stay by your side.

"Is everything alright?"

"What do you mean 'it should be fine'? Rich people shouldn't have friends and relatives."

In particular, you should distance yourself from and cut off contact with friends and relatives who are too far apart in terms of social standing, who are petty, and who can't stand seeing others succeed.

Because you never know how absurd things the other person might do when they're jealous.

Besides, there's a huge difference between having your own children and not having them.

People change; faced with enormous wealth, they cease to be human.

Don't trust anyone but yourself, no matter how pleasant or good your relationship was in the past.

Who knows what others have gone through in the days without you, or how ruthless they can be.

Don't test human nature with money.

"Okay, I see."

In novels and TV dramas, when the female lead gets divorced, there's always a loyal second male lead waiting by her side.

But that's not the case in reality. People in reality are more pragmatic; most of them are lustful at first sight, rather than devoted to one another.

All the truly good men have already been snatched up; they couldn't have waited until now.

Most men her age are divorced men with a lot of problems, including having children, so there's absolutely no need for them to jump into this fire pit.

It's not that the kind of love that lasts a lifetime doesn't exist, but it's extremely rare, and not everyone is destined to experience it.

It's perfectly normal not to encounter this.

Even those as beautiful and from such a family as Chen Jin are no exception.

Chen Jin herself comes from a good family, is not short of money, and has a stable career.

The only thing she lacks is a child and a bed partner, so dating a younger man is the best solution.

As long as you forget that you are a woman, you can break free from the shackles that society imposes on women.