Traveling through time and space, wanting to lie down, but being forced to move forward

Chapter 749 Talking about Marriage (6)

Hearing what Liu Jianjun said, Mr. Wu couldn't help but roll his eyes.

"Didn't you just say that you found a gay man who is the best in every aspect for your little sister?

Such a person must have good character first of all. How could he take the initiative to file for divorce after having a child just because your younger sister concealed her true ability?

I'm afraid that no matter how uncomfortable he feels, he will still try to maintain the marriage for the sake of the children.

It's just that because of some grudges in my heart and family discord, I became a couple with your younger sister."

Old Wu spread his hands and said, "You can't divorce, but you're so happy to be together. Do you want your sister to be unhappy and unhappy after marriage?"

"Yes, divorce is not that simple.

Now that you are married, you must live a good life unless it is absolutely necessary.

So, don't think about letting your younger sister hide her true ability from the man, trick him into marrying her first, and then divorce him after having a child, and find a way to take the child away. It's not that easy.

Even if you succeed, as a divorced woman with a child, the main reason for the divorce is still your younger sister, and those rumors will be enough for your sister to bear.

This world is too harsh on women, it's not as simple as you think." Wang Xiulan said, sighing.

She patted Liu Weihua, signaling him to let go of Liu Jianjun.

Wang Xiulan also released her control over Liu Jianjun and helped him change from lying to sitting.

Reaching out to help him straighten his messy clothes, Wang Xiulan carefully instructed him,

“I know you’re doing this for your sister’s sake, but it’s hard for women in this world. You’re looking at things from a man’s perspective, so it’s bound to be biased.

In the future, whenever it comes to matters involving lesbians, ask for the opinions of people around you and don’t make decisions on your own.

When the time comes, good intentions will lead to bad consequences, harming others and yourself.”

Zou Lao also said, "Jianjun, your mother is right, you really need to seek advice from other people regarding matters concerning lesbians.

You have to know that these days, words can kill people.

You don’t know much about this aspect, so you need to learn to seek advice.”

Liu Jianjun was quite devastated when his proposal was rejected by all the elders and he was also told that he did not understand the world.

But he didn't insist. He was indeed lacking in this aspect, and it wasn't like someone had told him about this before, but he just didn't take it seriously.

It seems that I need to pay more attention in the future and make up for my shortcomings as soon as possible.

He nodded obediently, "I understand. I will pay attention to it next time."

"What should we do about my little sister's marriage?"

Wang Xiulan thought for a moment and replied, "In the past one or two years when I had nothing to do, I thought about Xiaoxue's affairs.

As for this child's personality, how should I describe it? He grew up with your grandparents, and his living habits and personality are more like your grandparents. He likes quietness and doesn't like to interact with others.

In addition, I learned about Chinese herbal medicine from your grandfather, and I had to take care of my two elders, so I had no time to make friends.

Watching her over the past two years, she interacted with the young people in the production team and the educated youth in the team. Apart from two female educated youth, she interacted more with them. Most of them came to her house on their own initiative. It was clear that she didn't like to interact with others. "

"I have been thinking about what this child should do in the future and what kind of partner he should find.

In order to take care of us, she came to the countryside. There were not many people she could meet, and the range of people she could find a partner was small. Coupled with her personality and ability, I was even more worried.

Secretly, I don't want her to marry into the countryside.

I'm not saying that country people are bad, but with Xiaoxue's knowledge and abilities, it would be a waste for her to stay in the countryside and farm for the rest of her life.

Among those male educated youth, except Mingxuan and Junhao, only Zhou Wenbing was barely acceptable.

Xiaoxue is 19 years old now, and it’s time for her to find a partner, but there is no suitable one around her.”

"Xiaoxue lost her parents when she was young. Although she has grandparents who love her, parents are different from grandparents.

As for our family, we can’t go back for several years. Every time we come, we leave in a hurry, and we can’t give Xiaoxue much comfort. "

At this point, Wang Xiulan couldn't help but sigh, "Your father and I often say that in this life, we have done our best for the country, but we have done our best for your grandparents, your uncle and aunt.

We have failed to be filial to your grandparents, and we have failed to take good care of your uncle and aunt, the only bloodline they left behind.

But your little sister stayed with your grandparents and did what we should do.

Your little sister, your father, me, and you two brothers all owe too much to her."

Wang Xiulan's voice was a little choked.

Liu Weihua's eyes also turned red.

Zou Lao sighed, "All of us soldiers are the same, we are worthy of our country, but we are not worthy of our families.

Everyone is the same. "

Liu Weihua reached out and patted Wang Xiulan, "Just talk about Xiaoxue's marriage, don't talk about anything else.

Everyone understands this.”

The sigh sounded again, and Wang Xiulan continued, "Actually, your little sister wasn't like this before.

When your uncle and aunt were still alive, she was very lively, but later she encountered some misfortunes and gradually changed her personality.

After all, your younger sister has become like this because she doesn't have a complete family and a sense of security.

And now, she has no home.”

"How could that be? Doesn't my younger sister have a family? You two, mom and dad, as well as me and my elder brother, are all her family members," Liu Jianjun retorted.

Wang Xiulan shook her head, “This is different.

Although we treat your little sister as a family member in our hearts, our previous responsibilities are destined to not give Xiaoxue a family-like feeling.

We can't give your little sister the companionship she needs.

Look at you, you've been on a mission for two or three years, and there's no news during that time. Can your younger sister rely on you whenever she needs you?

Your elder brother is the same. He is far away and you can’t count on him if anything happens to Xiaoxue.

As for your father and I, our current situation has become a burden to Xiaoxue."

"The reason why I don't want Xiaoxue to marry a soldier is because I want Xiaoxue to have a truly complete family, with someone who can accompany her for a long time, to make up for the regrets in her heart."

Liu Jianjun frowned, "So you mean you still want my little sister to get married?"

"As her elder, I naturally hope that she can find a lover who loves her wholeheartedly, give birth to a few smart and sensible children, and live a happy life.

Xiaoxue had a hard life before, I hope her future life will be full of sweetness." Wang Xiulan said firmly.

"So, Dad, what do you mean?"

Liu Weihua let out a breath, "My thoughts are the same as your mother's, I also hope Xiaoxue can get married, and marry a good man.

Your mother and I are both old enough to not be with her all the time.

And both of you have your own jobs and lives, so it's impossible for you to always be with her.

The only one who can accompany Xiaoxue for a long time is her lover.

Even the children will leave her and live on their own when they grow up.”

"Don't you want your sister to have a happy life?" Liu Weihua asked back.